Friday, 23 May 2014

Getting Back In The Game.

I honestly cannot remember the last time I went on an actual "date". In a nutshell I have spent the best part of the last 7 years as a single parent and after finally coming to some sort of conclusion with a past (non existent) relationship I feel comfortable at the prospect of putting myself out there, enjoying life and perhaps meeting somebody new. The relationship was over years ago, but for some reason I stopped myself from moving on. I wasn't happy being single and yet did nothing to rectify the situation and the longer I left it the easier it became to just be satisfied on my own. I started thinking that maybe this was it for me, that "single" would be the box I ticked for the foreseeable future. That thought scared me more than anything. After all, why did I not deserve to meet my soul mate and live "happily ever after"?

I have gone through many changes over the past year or so, the biggest being a physical change and I have so far lost over 5 stone. Its not just my shape that has changed though, my whole outlook on things seems to have shifted. I feel a lot happier in myself and I am a lot more willing to get out there and start living life as apposed to watching everyone else live theirs and doing nothing to make "me" happy.

So with that in mind, I thought I would be bold and brave and join up to a dating site. It's easy enough to talk about making changes and getting out there but actually doing it is a whole different ball game. I know there's lots of bad press surrounding dating sites and the whole "online dating" scene but there are also many success stories and you get nothing from not trying right? So the lovely people over at Match.com have offered me a months free trial to "test the waters" and see how I get on. I have never been good at selling myself and I am looking at the registration page now and It is as blank as my mind! I guess I just have to be honest and get the "real me" into words and on the screen. I am slightly dubious and really nervous about joining a dating site but I am going into it with an open mind.

Could this be the start of something new? Lets see...


Do you have any dating stories? Did you meet your true love online? Of do you have a dating disaster? I would love to hear from you.



11 comments:

  1. oh gosh no, dating i have never done , i dont think, i dont think i dare x

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  2. Oh that great news that you have moved on and are now ready to get back in the game - how exciting, good luck and have fun :)

    Laura x

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  3. Your amazing and any potential suitor will see that, Just be you and be honest xx

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  4. I used plenty of fish years ago and met some right psychos! 1 of which was in a relationship already and didn't tell me - I'd avoid them tbh but good luck with your mission em x

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  5. That's fantastic! Well done you for putting yourself out there. I've heard many good things about dating sites and I can't wait to hear how it works out for you.
    Well done on the weight loss success too x

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